Sermon by the Rev. Caela Simmons Wood
First Congregational UCC of Manhattan, KS
Exodus 20:1-17 and Proverbs 3:1-12
October 11, 2026
Recently, I was talking with a couple of friends and catching up about our weekends. One friend said that she had spent her whole Saturday going through a pile of old magazines and collaging. She spent time cutting out images and words that spoke to her and arranged them on her collage. As she described her process I could see how restorative this activity was for her. She finished telling us about her collage and said, “And then I watched Toy Story 5! I was really living my best life!”
Wouldn’t it be great if all our days were like that? Okay, so maybe collaging and Toy Story aren’t your thing, but can you think of the last time you had a day when you felt like you were “living your best life”? Maybe you were surrounded by people you love, or out in nature with a favorite pet. Perhaps your best life involves volunteering at Common Table or cheering on student athletes at a K-State game. Maybe your best life is spent in the kitchen, baking a cake for a family member or hanging out with church friends to fill the freezer for our new potato soup ministry. Whatever your “best life” is, you know it when it’s within reach, don’t you?
In the gospel of John, Jesus says “I came that you might have life - and have it abundantly.” I think that’s a bit like Jesus saying he hopes and prays that we can all live our best lives.
Of course, Jesus isn’t speaking just to you, personally, when he says that. He actually doesn’t say “you” there, he says “they.” He’s telling a parable about sheep and the thieves that come to cause harm to the sheep - and the shepherd who protects them. He says he’s the shepherd who is there to protect all the sheep - and work for a world where every sheep in the fold can live their best life.
In adult Sunday School, we’ve been talking about how we interpret scripture. Where did the Bible come from? How should we use it? Of course, one of the things we started talking about right away is that the Bible is not one book, but a library of over 60 books, conveniently bound into one compact package. So when we ask “how should we use the Bible?” it really depends on which book we’re talking about, doesn’t it? A history book has a different use than poetry. The gospels may be helpful to us in a different way than the epistles, which are letters.
Today’s reading from the book of Proverbs takes us into the realm of “wisdom literature.” UCC pastor, the Rev. Barbara J. Essex describes the book like so:
The Book of Proverbs is a somewhat quirky collection of sayings, poems, proverbs, and instructions. Grouped with Job, Psalms, Ecclesiastes and Song of Solomon in most Christian Bibles, Proverbs is part of the Wisdom tradition. Collected over a long period of time, with various and diverse authors and settings, the Wisdom tradition responds to some of life’s most pressing issues and concerns. Proverbs offers strategies for dealing with real life situations and concerns, offering practical advice and insights. Dr. Ellen Davis reminds us that: “The proverbs are spiritual guides for ordinary people, on an ordinary day, when water does not pour forth from rocks and angels do not come to lunch.”
Most days are ordinary days. Days when water is not pouring forth from rocks and angels aren’t knocking at our door asking for lunch. But even these ordinary days have a rhythm and cadence - and some of them are much better than others. Rev. Essex says that Proverbs offers a lot of sound guidance about how to “live our best lives.” And the book reminds us, again and again, that God’s version of abundant life is distinctly counter-cultural.
Many of our ideas about what abundant life looks like are shaped when we are young and dreaming about what our future may hold. Most of us in the room are probably familiar with a phrase that’s not as common these days - “keeping up with the Joneses” - that fictional family that always had the new car in the driveway, just came home from a fabulous trip, and loves to tell you about their kitchen remodel at a cocktail party. These ideas about what we “need” to “keep up” were fueled by ad men on Madison Avenue, magazine spreads, and television commercials. All of it carefully calibrated to ensure we could never quite keep up and abundance was always just a bit beyond our reach.
Those who are a little younger might identify more with the pressure of “keeping up with the Kardashians” or _______ (fill in the blank with your favorite influencer). These days we’re more likely to be told what our best lives could look like by content creators who always have the new, viral lip gloss, the tricked-out truck, and are living la dolce vita on the Amalfi coast. The media has changed, but the message is the same: you are what you spend. Buy more, keep up, and maybe your best life is just around the corner.
And these days we are facing an increased pressure to “live our best lives” by pursue endless efficiency. You can hardly turn on your phone, computer, or even some household appliances without being courted by AI. “Just let me summarize that email for you…” or “Give me all of your account log ins and I can schedule your whole day, simplify your life, make you an exercise plan, do your entire job for you…” The current iteration of artificial intelligence is clearly designed to be addictive - luring us into a simpler life where we can outsource almost everything - including our brains. In turn, the tech billionaires amass ever more data and enshrine themselves more fully in our daily lives. Studies show that the regular use of AI for everyday tasks makes us less competent, not more, as we trade short-term-efficiency for long-term-human-development. To say nothing, of course, of the painful impacts on our already-hurting planet.
Whether we’re looksmaxxing or productivitymaxxing, the siren song is the same: do more, earn more, buy more, have more, be more. The endless loop of production-and-consumption is the air we breathe. So ever-present that we hardly notice it’s there.
Our faith, of course, presents alternative options. Rev. Essex points out that today’s text from Proverbs “explores what constitutes a good life—rooted in faith and supported by community; with compassion and sharing at its core; and reflecting our God who is generous and just….The Book of Proverbs declares that pursuing wisdom leads to longevity, wealth, esteem in the eyes of others, and a healthy respect for others. Choosing the path of wisdom leads to purpose and meaning as one moves through life. Pursuing wisdom is the path to peace or, in the Hebrew, shalom. This term means more than the absence of war or conflict, although it embraces that meaning. Shalom carries the sense of wholeness, completeness, justice, prosperity, harmony, safety—total well-being for humans and nature.”
For followers of Jesus, “living our best lives” can never be just about me or us. It always has to be about abundance for all - not just humans, but every creature that inhabits this Earth and, yes, the Earth itself. Our sacred texts remind us that “living your best” life turns out to not be about how new your car is or how many followers you have or even how efficient you are at getting things done. “Living your best life” is about caring for the poor, the widow, the orphan. It’s about doing justice, loving mercy, and walking humbly with God. Our best lives are available to us when we seek to love God and love our neighbor as we love ourselves.
Today’s reading from Proverbs is paired with a familiar passage from Exodus: the giving of the Ten Commandments to the Israelites. Over the years, I’ve heard far too many Christians talk about the commandments given in the Hebrew Bible with derision. You probably know this flavor of Christianity, too, right? “Oh, we ignore all of that. We don’t have to follow those silly rules because Jesus came and died for our sins, so we can do whatever we want now.”
This has always struck me as odd. Don’t we want our faith to offer guidance for how we’re supposed to live our lives? Don’t we pick up our Bibles and pray and come to worship partially because we crave the structure and boundaries offered to us? I’m not advocating that we need to follow every law given to the Israelites over 2000 years ago. I’m also not making light of powerful message of God’s love and grace that flows through the story of Jesus. But I do think there is an appeal to having some rules and structure to govern our lives as human beings. I do think there are times when we have to make difficult decisions and we look to the wisdom offered to us by our faith as a guide. I do think it is a powerful thing to remember that God commanded our faith ancestors to remember that our liberation comes from God and we shouldn’t worship other gods. I think the practice of Sabbath can be life-giving. I believe we humans do need reminders to live with integrity, tell the truth when it matters most, and seek to live in peaceful ways - rejecting violent deeds and actions.
Without God’s wisdom - without God’s laws - we have nothing calling us to a higher standard than the customs of our day. We may find ourselves easily seduced by the cultural norm of keeping up with the Joneses or Kardashians or whoever. We may not hear the invitation to follow Christ into a life of true abundance, which only comes when we seek to help everyone find abundant life.
May we continue to receive and consider the good news of God’s guidance for our lives. May we continue to seek Christ’s invitation to abundance - living with generous spirits and seeking health and wholeness for everyone. Because, as Rev. Essex reminds us,
“Our generosity and stewardship show up in concrete, tangible acts of love, compassion, and care for others—providing comfort after natural disasters; providing shelter, nourishment and safety for those displaced; providing means of empowerment and resilience for those experiencing prejudice; offering support during economic hardship and difficult circumstances beyond their control. Our collective giving meets immediate needs and promotes long-term development and self-sufficiency for those most vulnerable. Wisdom calls us to do no less.”
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