Exodus 16:11-18,31,35
Sermon by Rev. Caela Simmons Wood
November 10, 2024
“The world begins at a kitchen table. No matter what, we must eat to live.”
There’s a powerful scene at the very end of the 2021 sci-fi-satire film Don’t Look Up. It’s a movie about scientists who are trying to warn everyone else about a literal meteor that’s about to hit Earth. The movie itself is hilarious at points in a “you have to laugh or else you’ll just spend all your time crying” kind of way. It pokes fun at our 24-hour news cycle, misinformation, corporate greed, clueless politicians, and more. No matter what the facts in front of their faces show, people simply aren’t willing to believe a meteor is coming for them. Even when they can see it directly overhead.
And at the end of the movie, the main characters and their loved ones gather for dinner. They come together around the kitchen table. They turn off the news. They tell stories about mundane things. They reminisce. At one point, they all hold hands and wonder if they should pray. But no one really knows how to. The sole religious person among them finally prays: asking for grace, forgiveness, and most of all, for God’s love and care to soothe them and give them courage through the difficulties that lie ahead.
And then the talk turns to apple pie and whether storebought or homemade is better. The scene is overlaid with a montage of images from what’s happening out there in the rest of the world - the meteor is crashing, people are running, babies are being born, children are laughing, couples are kissing, animals are panicking. But around this kitchen table it could be any other day. They are talking about apple pie and coffee. They are holding hands. The coffee cups on the table are shaking and, finally, the walls begin to peel away.
As poet Joy Harjo writes, “Perhaps the world will end at the kitchen table, while we are laughing and crying, eating of the last sweet bite.”
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It’s no accident that so many of our sacred stories are about eating and gathering around tables. As Harjo says, “No matter what, we must eat to live.”
Jesus’s first miracle is water into wine at a wedding party. And later, of course, the loaves and fishes. Elijah asks the widow to make him a bit of bread with her meager ration of flour and oil. The lovers in the Song of Songs sing about pomegranates and milk and honey. There are parables about fig trees and the giant party thrown for the prodigal son when he returns home. The leaders in the early church fretted and argued about how to sit down at tables together when some of them followed more restrictive dietary laws than the others. Jesus cooks up a breakfast of fish on the lakeshore after the Resurrection. And we still remember that last meal with his disciples every time we gather at the table for Communion.
Even the prayer that Jesus taught his followers reminds us we all have to eat to live: “give us this day our daily bread.”
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The Israelites didn’t have tables to gather around when they were wandering in the wilderness.
They had left their tables behind. And their grain. And their yeast. And their bowls. And their ovens. They dropped it all and left home - striking out in hopes of a better future. They were told they were headed for the land of milk and honey. They were told things would be better on the other side. They were told that all they needed to do was believe, hope, and follow - and that they’d finally be free.
Imagine their surprise when it turns out the Promised Land wasn’t just next door. I was talking with my pastor friend Leah earlier this week and she made the observation that there’s really no reason they should have been wandering in the desert for 40 years. They should have been able to make that journey a lot faster. But, hey, if there’s one thing we know about humans it’s that we’re not always able to do things the way we’re supposed to. We mess up. We disappoint. We wander in circles, making the same mistakes and getting lost in the same way. We fail. We fall short. And often we manage to do it over and over and over again.
And in all that wandering, Harjo’s words rang true: “No matter what, we must eat to live.”
And so the people of God found themselves in the wilderness without a table to gather ‘round. No chairs to pull up. No tea cups to warm their hands. No pitchers of water to share. No bread fresh out of the oven. Nothing. They were depleted. Lost. Exhausted. Despondent.
The story goes that God showed up: quail in the evening, manna in the morning. Bellies were filled. Needs were met. Stories were shared. Perhaps you’d even like to imagine families gathering around a big boulder here or there - makeshift tables in the wilderness.
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On Wednesday morning, manna showed up here at church. I came down at 8:00 a.m. to turn the lights on in case anyone needed to stop in for a hug or prayer before beginning their day. As I left the house that morning, I grabbed a box of brownie mix from my pantry. It just seemed like the kind of day where brownies might be helpful.
I turned on the oven in the kitchen and suddenly realized, “Wait. I can’t make these brownies. I didn’t bring an egg.” And I couldn’t run out to the store because I wanted to be present at the church in case anyone stopped by. Ugh.
Before 9:00 a.m. Linda showed up. We shared a big hug and she told me she had come to put the coffee on. Before long, she was bustling around the kitchen - coffee, tea, storebought snacks - all lovingly set out for anyone who might need them that day.
And then Jackie showed up with groceries for Second Helping. Linda and I visited with her as she put them away. We all noticed that it was good to have something tangible to do in the wilderness - groceries need to be brought in, volunteer slots still need to be filled, people still need to eat to live. Also? It turns out there were extra eggs in the Second Helping groceries and Linda assured me I could have one for the brownies. At one point I heard the voice of a man that was unfamiliar to me. And I heard Sandy talking to him and sharing info about the Common Table meals and walking him out to the Blessing Box to see what else they could find out there.
Before long, the kitchen smelled like chocolate and then Janet showed up with an armfull of carbs from Parkside. It all went onto the table - coffee, tea, water, fruit, brownies, croissants, and more. It was more than really anyone needed but that table anchored the day. People continued to wander in and out all day long - numb, confused, sad, angry, surprised, unsure. And the kitchen table stood steady.
“The world begins at a kitchen table. No matter what, we must eat to live.”
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People are hungry right now. They were hungry a week ago. They’ll be hungry next week, too.
Sometimes that hunger is physical: a craving for something that tastes good, a basic alarm bell in our rumbling tummies reminding us it’s time to fuel up, or the deeper hunger when we don’t have access to the food we need.
Sometimes that hunger is emotional: we need to be held, soothed, heard, understood, seen.
Sometimes that hunger is spiritual: we need to know we’re not alone in the wilderness, that something exists beyond what we can see in front of our own faces, that we don’t live our lives in vain.
“No matter what, we must eat to live.”
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And so we keep gathering around kitchen tables. We sit with family, friends, and strangers, too. We pass the plates and refill the glasses and make sure everyone has what they need. When we notice people lingering around the edges, we scoot over and pull up a chair for them. We make new friends. We re-tell the stories we learned from our ancestors. We pray and tell jokes. We compliment the chef and ask if we can help with the dishes.
Quail in the evening and manna in the morning. We say we don’t quite understand how the Spirit makes it happen - except we do understand a little, don’t we? We show up and make the coffee. We bring carbs to share. We walk each other to the Blessing Box and we show up with groceries for Second Helping. We open up our arms and hearts to receive one another - keeping a special eye out for those who have been pushed to the margins. We remind each other that there’s no need to hoard - that there’s actually enough for everyone if we just remember to share.
It took our ancestors a lot longer than it should have to reach the Promised Land. Some of them never made it. Time and time again they disappointed one another. They had to stop to lick their wounds. There were shouting matches and tears. They argued about the best route. They failed to learn from their mistakes. They lost hope. They found it again. They carried the sick and tired when their feet gave out. They took turns chasing the children and carrying the babies. They wandered in circles. They found themselves back at the beginning. They cried tears of frustration.
They kept gathering around tables. Because the world begins and ends and begins and ends ane begins at the kitchen table.
Beloveds, it is my prayer for you that you that in all our many beginnings and endings and everything in between, you will continue to find the sustenance you need.
And that you will keep showing up at tables to share what you have - especially with those who need it most.
May it be so.